Sex

Growing up I always had this notion that only the ultra-horny, bad people had sex in the teenage years. Through time, (admittingly, very slowly), I began to realize this was more and more false. My own personal circle of friends, while fun to hang out with, let's face it: Most of them won't be getting a girl for a while. However, I had some friends outside of the main circle having sex, fuck buddies, etc. I've also always had this notion that sex should be with somebody that you love. I look down upon fuck buddies. What happens if your wifey pops up, says she saved herself her whole life for you, only to hear that actually, you were drunk one night and had sex with a random girl?

I don't know. I mean, everybody has a sex drive, me included. But it's never gotten super bad, I never had to have sex. Or maybe they don't want it x10 worse than I do, they just want to act on what they want? Today I get the statistic that 50% of teenagers have had sex. That's a pretty high percentage, and is the first actual numbers I have on this. I wanted to shun people that had fuck buddies, or 5000 boyfriends, but looking at how things are, I'd be shunning out the entire world, and I can't do that if I want to function in a normal society.

What amuses me is the governments attempt to say that 'abstinence is the only option'. I'm not horny through the roof, and even I know that's not an option for pretty much everybody. I don't think I'm going to get any more personal that this though.

So, what are your views on sex? Do you think teenagers have sex too early? Or do you think that whatever's gonna happen, is gonna happen? Any extra thoughts?

I am a love machine.

Frankly I don't get why the guy has to approach the girl. We're back told days: Guy must take initiative, the girl stays at home, the guy makes the money. Change all of it, or don't change it at all.

I'd go into the whole entire evolution thing: Females naturally more cautious because offspring is risky, and risking death for inferior genes is a bad thing, whereas the guy can just fuck all day and pretty much anyone assuming they are females. But for the love of god, it's breaking my balls here.

And the 'I just want a good guy, no drama'. As the girl that says that, she has that shy guy that never says anything, sitting there, patiently, the exact guy that fits the descpriotn, then she goes for idiots, then gets mad, loses faith in all males, and hates men. Not saying that's me or anything, I'm just saying these kinds of things really piss me off. Why the games?

Human interaction is so complex...
For me right now, the girl I want to be with, we're not going to happen. I'm left with no desire for anybody else, which is fine. I've got other things to worry about, like college. I came to college to study, not to pick up chicks.

I also don't understand the urge to drink at a young age. What for?! You can't wait, seriously, till' you're older to drink?

Corn is always interesting.

Although, watch 'I'm not looking for girls right now,and I feel like sex should be between two people that love each other (hence called making love)' be spun off as 'omg i never get gurls i never get laid so i duck behind diz escuze'...

I think the best way to proceed is to simply try to be accomplished, then decide what I want from there, when I have more options. But then again, I lose the best years of my life.

Dark_wizzie wrote:..So, what are your views on sex? Do you think teenagers have sex too early? Or do you think that whatever's gonna happen, is gonna happen? Any extra thoughts?

In today's world, young people are growing up too early. The reasons for this are many. One of the factors - a large flow of different information. What could see the boy and girls before? Somewhere watch an adult movie, somewhere to see adult magazine ..certainly still have comics.. And we understand that different countries had different degrees of freedom. But now everything is much easier. Teenager enough to have a good mobile phone and "all the joys of the world he had in his pocket." Other effects - an example of the parents. Further - increase in the number of centers for entertainment.. etc..
I think this is the natural course of events.. every teenager has to be careful.. That is, early adulthood should be accompanied by understanding the next - every action can be followed by consequences.

Most people nowadays are encouraged to act out their feelings. Not doing so is "repressing" one's self-expression. And if someone else suggests someone else control themselves, he's being a "prude" or "puritanical." So yeah, sex is encouraged and promoted quite a bit. No surprise that kids are starting earlier and earlier.

I've also felt having sex was something to share with someone you love. I may have fantasized all sorts of stuff with strange women, but in reality I wouldn't want to do that.

Someone once said that sex is like oxygen: you're only concerned with it if you aren't getting any. If you are having sex with any regularity, it can actually become a chore. Think of Al Bundy of Married With Children:

Peg: Oh Aaaaaaalllll, let's go upstairs!

Al: What? Didn't we have sex this month already?

Andy wrote:Most people nowadays are encouraged to act out their feelings. Not doing so is "repressing" one's self-expression. And if someone else suggests someone else control themselves, he's being a "prude" or "puritanical." So yeah, sex is encouraged and promoted quite a bit. No surprise that kids are starting earlier and earlier.

I've also felt having sex was something to share with someone you love. I may have fantasized all sorts of stuff with strange women, but in reality I wouldn't want to do that.

Someone once said that sex is like oxygen: you're only concerned with it if you aren't getting any. If you are having sex with any regularity, it can actually become a chore. Think of Al Bundy of Married With Children:

Peg: Oh Aaaaaaalllll, let's go upstairs!

Al: What? Didn't we have sex this month already?

Agreed. And they should air 'Married with Children' more often.

I believe in a man and woman having sex when they are married to each other.

I still believe that the cheese doodle is the best modern invention.

Thomas wrote:I never understood the concept of a 'fuck buddy', it seems as if sex is just an urge, something that has to get out of the way. And I just think that's weird. It's also tough to talk to a girl, try to be friends with her, that type of thing, 'cause the average immediate reaction is that if a boy wants to talk to a girl, he must have a sexual hidden agenda. And that just sucks.

The things is sex is completely normal. So if you think it's not normal or it's a hidden agenda, then sure, you feel shitty. But girl love sex if not more than man, its a proven concept in human sexuality.

So by knowing that, we know why fuck body exist, because sex is normal part of life, but life is more than sex. so at some point of girl's life, she does not want to have necessary so call boyfriend at that point of life, but she still have urge to have sex, so hence, fuck body

- J lin